"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Small Myspace drama, need advice how to resolve.

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My girlfriend has been talking about other guys quite a bit lately. I played it really DJish, not getting angry and just smiling. I once said, "This conversation is boring me. Let's just talk about hot chicks instead" She laughed and stopped talking about other guys the rest of the night.

One of her friends thinks that I'm into her. I'm really not, actually. I just pointed out to my girlfriend that she deleted me on Myspace. My girlfriend responds, saying something like: "She thought I was jealous or something. Over YOU!? Hahaha!"

I'm finding it difficult not to get pissed at that or ignore it. She seems like she completely does not give a **** there. How to proceed, please?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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have sex with her as much as you can until the relationship expires.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to proceed? I'll tell you how to proceed.

Man the **** up. Grab your nuts and go to HER an ask what that meant. don't be afraid to get mad. actually, BE MAD! threaten to dump her if she isn't taking you seriously. A girl must, at all times, believe you are willing to walk away.
 
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Myspace will be the death of someone bro
 
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how is this myspace drama? it sounds like INSTANT MESSANGER DRAMA

its your gf....nothing u talk about matters, it just matters how u kiss her and how u **** her, so stop worrying about conversation like a little girl and just see her and fvck her brains out

dummmmmmmazzzz
 
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