"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Small Myspace drama, need advice how to resolve.

apocalypse later

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My girlfriend has been talking about other guys quite a bit lately. I played it really DJish, not getting angry and just smiling. I once said, "This conversation is boring me. Let's just talk about hot chicks instead" She laughed and stopped talking about other guys the rest of the night.

One of her friends thinks that I'm into her. I'm really not, actually. I just pointed out to my girlfriend that she deleted me on Myspace. My girlfriend responds, saying something like: "She thought I was jealous or something. Over YOU!? Hahaha!"

I'm finding it difficult not to get pissed at that or ignore it. She seems like she completely does not give a **** there. How to proceed, please?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rocco

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have sex with her as much as you can until the relationship expires.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HolyG

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How to proceed? I'll tell you how to proceed.

Man the **** up. Grab your nuts and go to HER an ask what that meant. don't be afraid to get mad. actually, BE MAD! threaten to dump her if she isn't taking you seriously. A girl must, at all times, believe you are willing to walk away.
 

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Myspace will be the death of someone bro
 
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how is this myspace drama? it sounds like INSTANT MESSANGER DRAMA

its your gf....nothing u talk about matters, it just matters how u kiss her and how u **** her, so stop worrying about conversation like a little girl and just see her and fvck her brains out

dummmmmmmazzzz
 
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