"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bluemanson

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OK i need alittle help here, a girl which i like ( just want a piece of action) but i dont think anything will happen but wana change that.
I phone her today and while speaking to her about weight and stuff and she is slender, she says she doesnt have a BF and all that crap and has noone to work out with (u know what i mean).

Now how do i approach this, i ended the call cos il see her at 2 today,
Any ideas guys on this
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok guys i have like 45 mins, any suggestions.
or if you need more info
Really
 

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oh but i do, apparently im not her type, that was probably a test and i blew and she telling me all these things, could be friendzone i dont know

anyway i met with her and i just didnt know how to proceed from what she told me and didnt know how to bring it up.....
 

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Don't believe what a woman says, look at what she's doing. You can change from being "not her type" to "the perfect guy" depending on how you influence her emotions.

It also sounds like you need to work on your ability to actually attract a woman. Search the forum for ****y/funny and kino.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok i do use c&f and she laughs alot and i make fun of her and i have tried abit of kino, maybe im doing it wrong, i touch her when we talki like her or knoee but then all is good for a day or 2 then all of a sudden she changes and say i musnt touch like that, i tell her why is it turning you on and she just gives me this smug look,

Im busy reading "The Game" by neil straus and some book by mystery

hoping that will help me abit,

im not sure as what else i need to do
 
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