"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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OK i need alittle help here, a girl which i like ( just want a piece of action) but i dont think anything will happen but wana change that.
I phone her today and while speaking to her about weight and stuff and she is slender, she says she doesnt have a BF and all that crap and has noone to work out with (u know what i mean).

Now how do i approach this, i ended the call cos il see her at 2 today,
Any ideas guys on this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok guys i have like 45 mins, any suggestions.
or if you need more info
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oh but i do, apparently im not her type, that was probably a test and i blew and she telling me all these things, could be friendzone i dont know

anyway i met with her and i just didnt know how to proceed from what she told me and didnt know how to bring it up.....
 
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Don't believe what a woman says, look at what she's doing. You can change from being "not her type" to "the perfect guy" depending on how you influence her emotions.

It also sounds like you need to work on your ability to actually attract a woman. Search the forum for ****y/funny and kino.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok i do use c&f and she laughs alot and i make fun of her and i have tried abit of kino, maybe im doing it wrong, i touch her when we talki like her or knoee but then all is good for a day or 2 then all of a sudden she changes and say i musnt touch like that, i tell her why is it turning you on and she just gives me this smug look,

Im busy reading "The Game" by neil straus and some book by mystery

hoping that will help me abit,

im not sure as what else i need to do
 
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