"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bluemanson

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OK i need alittle help here, a girl which i like ( just want a piece of action) but i dont think anything will happen but wana change that.
I phone her today and while speaking to her about weight and stuff and she is slender, she says she doesnt have a BF and all that crap and has noone to work out with (u know what i mean).

Now how do i approach this, i ended the call cos il see her at 2 today,
Any ideas guys on this
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ok guys i have like 45 mins, any suggestions.
or if you need more info
Really
 

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oh but i do, apparently im not her type, that was probably a test and i blew and she telling me all these things, could be friendzone i dont know

anyway i met with her and i just didnt know how to proceed from what she told me and didnt know how to bring it up.....
 

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Don't believe what a woman says, look at what she's doing. You can change from being "not her type" to "the perfect guy" depending on how you influence her emotions.

It also sounds like you need to work on your ability to actually attract a woman. Search the forum for ****y/funny and kino.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok i do use c&f and she laughs alot and i make fun of her and i have tried abit of kino, maybe im doing it wrong, i touch her when we talki like her or knoee but then all is good for a day or 2 then all of a sudden she changes and say i musnt touch like that, i tell her why is it turning you on and she just gives me this smug look,

Im busy reading "The Game" by neil straus and some book by mystery

hoping that will help me abit,

im not sure as what else i need to do
 
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