"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Men have problem to accept love from a girl that is sleeping with everyone around. You are afraid of her sluttiness by thinking that she will cheat on you if you invest in her. And you are probably right. So be on alert, don't let yourself slip.

I respect sluts, since they are honest. Most women try to hide how slutty they are, and those are the real danger. A girl that openly says I'm a slut is not a danger unless you are stupid enough to not see yourself falling in love.

Good luck and enjoy while you can.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Men have problem to accept love from a girl that is sleeping with everyone around. You are afraid of her sluttiness by thinking that she will cheat on you if you invest in her. And you are probably right. So be on alert, don't let yourself slip.

I respect sluts, since they are honest. Most women try to hide how slutty they are, and those are the real danger. A girl that openly says I'm a slut is not a danger unless you are stupid enough to not see yourself falling in love.

Good luck and enjoy while you can.
only reason she don't hide is because she is not thinking on the future, when she start to think and want to marry, the whole "I wifed a *****, who ahve sex like a prude" will happen again.

for the OP, well have fun, don't fell for her, and I bet it a year or 2 you will be on the internet and see, damn I had sex with that porn start before she become one(or she already is and not famous yet)
 

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Are there even porn "stars" anymore? It's getting more anonymous every day. I actually prefer the true amateur stuff - nothing less exciting than professional moaning.
 

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Yes, I dont want to invest in her because she's a super slut, so it doesnt make any sense eventhough she treats me nice.

See this, I have this little game going on with her in which when she does something I like she earns some points:
me: "whoah, that's very good, you get +5 points."
or when she does something I dont like (which just happened once at the begining), I tell her:
me: "I didn like that at all. you get -15 points."
By doing this she "wants" to earn points, and she doesn't want to lose any points, and I told her that once she reaches 100 points, she will get a little surprise.

For now I've told her that she has 75 points (it is not exact you know? she could actually have 50 or 80, the thing is that she's doing well and I like it) and she knows it, so today I went to the mall and got her a mini bottle of gin from a very good brand that she likes (it was just 5€), and I also got some tiny box of chocolates she adores (also just 5€), so I was planing on giving it to her soon...but after I bought it I thought: "well, she treats me nice ok, I treat her nice also. She hasn't really done anything amazing, just common stuff girls do when they like you so...why should I give her a little present?"
Well, because I've been playing this points thing and I've told her that she's close to 100 points, I cannot back out now.

We talked about doing a threesome with another girl so I've thought that I will give her what I bought AFTER WE DO THE THREESOME as a reward, and because she reached 100 fictional points.

Thoughts?
 

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I've been seing this 21 years old girl for around three months now. We have a lot of fun together, she's smart, kind, happy, sex is very good...but she's just a 6.
I didn't have to read past this line to know the answer. It's obvious that you have a problem with her being a 6 and that alone makes the relationship doomed.

Also a girl with a man's mind is great short-term, terrible for long-term. You may think that you want it but you don't.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are there even porn "stars" anymore? It's getting more anonymous every day. I actually prefer the true amateur stuff - nothing less exciting than professional moaning.
Yeah these days people look at the categories and the value is all based on what category you're in rather than who you are. I don't think many people lookout for a specific pornstar and probably more likely lookout for a guy performer rather than a girl. You can be a super famous pornstar for 10 years but find yourself competing for attention when you do a scene with a hot newcomer that just turned 18. Unlike movies a blonde girl with 100 videos experience isn't necessarily more valuable than a blonde that's doing her first shoot.
 
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