I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Librarian said:"Never try and turn a ho into a housewife."QUOTE]
Paraphrased from a Ludacris song.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
There's a difference here.foomee said:Anyone ever have a slut as a girlfriend? They like sex, but they remain faithful to you. It's just that when they're single, they go all out...
There's a girl I might be interested in... possibly relationship material, minus the slut factor. What'd you guys advise?
I agree with you that women love sex. Maybe even more than we do. Nothing at all is wrong with this. But, she is most likely not sexually satisfied by her partner. Which makes her want more or better sex. Thats why most women will cheat.Snow Plowman said:This is STUPID and the most CONTRADICTING thing in the world.
I don't get the fuking logic and it pisses me off sometimes. Just because she likes sex she's a slut. So every chicks a slut? because every chick likes sex.
The way some of you are implying is that you can't have a gf who loves sex. But then complain when she plays hard to get and doesn't have sex as much.
But then again what do I care becuase it's some of you guys who are the ones crying that she was a "Attention *****" because it's two years and you still haven't fuked onece. Also it's you guys who doesn't get head or can't do any real sexually fun things.
It's funny because some of you guys make it seem like SEX is this new realm and new passage. Sex is just something fun and is completly normal. Do you know there are guys who aren't in this community who are having SEX?
There is no such thing as a slut. Just because she shows her sexuality more freely doesn't make her a slut. It means when you happen to have sex you have a high chance of her giving you some great pleasure.
For all you guys who believe in sluts tell me who is a slut?
The chick who had a bf for 2 years and had sex everyday. She's done everything from anal, to taking it in the face, or drinking it from a cup.
or
The chick who had over 100 partners?...but she's now 40, and lost her virginity at age 20. She's never given head and doesn't even kiss the guys, she just likes the penetration.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.