You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Librarian said:"Never try and turn a ho into a housewife."QUOTE]
Paraphrased from a Ludacris song.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
There's a difference here.foomee said:Anyone ever have a slut as a girlfriend? They like sex, but they remain faithful to you. It's just that when they're single, they go all out...
There's a girl I might be interested in... possibly relationship material, minus the slut factor. What'd you guys advise?
I agree with you that women love sex. Maybe even more than we do. Nothing at all is wrong with this. But, she is most likely not sexually satisfied by her partner. Which makes her want more or better sex. Thats why most women will cheat.Snow Plowman said:This is STUPID and the most CONTRADICTING thing in the world.
I don't get the fuking logic and it pisses me off sometimes. Just because she likes sex she's a slut. So every chicks a slut? because every chick likes sex.
The way some of you are implying is that you can't have a gf who loves sex. But then complain when she plays hard to get and doesn't have sex as much.
But then again what do I care becuase it's some of you guys who are the ones crying that she was a "Attention *****" because it's two years and you still haven't fuked onece. Also it's you guys who doesn't get head or can't do any real sexually fun things.
It's funny because some of you guys make it seem like SEX is this new realm and new passage. Sex is just something fun and is completly normal. Do you know there are guys who aren't in this community who are having SEX?
There is no such thing as a slut. Just because she shows her sexuality more freely doesn't make her a slut. It means when you happen to have sex you have a high chance of her giving you some great pleasure.
For all you guys who believe in sluts tell me who is a slut?
The chick who had a bf for 2 years and had sex everyday. She's done everything from anal, to taking it in the face, or drinking it from a cup.
or
The chick who had over 100 partners?...but she's now 40, and lost her virginity at age 20. She's never given head and doesn't even kiss the guys, she just likes the penetration.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.