"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Slowness of sosuave.com

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Seem's like this site has started to slow quite a bit over the past week. Anyone else experiencing this ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes , I have cable internet and sosuave.com has been REALLY slow... So slow I had sex .. came back waited a while and it finally loaded.. hah joking but yes it is slow
 
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Nothing wrong here it's loading quick and i'm on 56k. I have noticed it taking up to about a minute to load pages earlier on and sometimes timing out but it's fine now.
 
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yeah me too super slow here. I'm on cable modem and I'm being given a flashback to my 56k days. Right when I need the site the most too :(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Argh...I swear...it's intermittent, but sometimes I can sit here for 2 to 3 minutes before a page loads. It's mostly when I first access the site, or when I go to post a reply.
 
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Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
 
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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
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There's no real pattern to it for me. I just tried to sign on and it was quick as hell. But other times I'll try to get on at 6AM and I'll wait like two or three minutes for every click.

All the other sites I visit seem to be pretty quick at these times, too, so I don't think it's something wrong on my end.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Still having problems, Allen.

Allen, why don't you post advice anymore? Check out the Discussion Forum once in a while.
 
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Better this morning, but usually IS in the morning. I'll let you know if I hit another one of those 3 minute delays. Thanks.
 
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SLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooowwwWW...

I feel like a fcuking braindead here.
 
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