"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Slowness of sosuave.com

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Seem's like this site has started to slow quite a bit over the past week. Anyone else experiencing this ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes , I have cable internet and sosuave.com has been REALLY slow... So slow I had sex .. came back waited a while and it finally loaded.. hah joking but yes it is slow
 
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Nothing wrong here it's loading quick and i'm on 56k. I have noticed it taking up to about a minute to load pages earlier on and sometimes timing out but it's fine now.
 
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yeah me too super slow here. I'm on cable modem and I'm being given a flashback to my 56k days. Right when I need the site the most too :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Argh...I swear...it's intermittent, but sometimes I can sit here for 2 to 3 minutes before a page loads. It's mostly when I first access the site, or when I go to post a reply.
 
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Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
 
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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
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There's no real pattern to it for me. I just tried to sign on and it was quick as hell. But other times I'll try to get on at 6AM and I'll wait like two or three minutes for every click.

All the other sites I visit seem to be pretty quick at these times, too, so I don't think it's something wrong on my end.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Still having problems, Allen.

Allen, why don't you post advice anymore? Check out the Discussion Forum once in a while.
 
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Better this morning, but usually IS in the morning. I'll let you know if I hit another one of those 3 minute delays. Thanks.
 
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SLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooowwwWW...

I feel like a fcuking braindead here.
 
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