"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Slowness of sosuave.com

Kodiac

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Seem's like this site has started to slow quite a bit over the past week. Anyone else experiencing this ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes , I have cable internet and sosuave.com has been REALLY slow... So slow I had sex .. came back waited a while and it finally loaded.. hah joking but yes it is slow
 

still the one

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Nothing wrong here it's loading quick and i'm on 56k. I have noticed it taking up to about a minute to load pages earlier on and sometimes timing out but it's fine now.
 

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yeah me too super slow here. I'm on cable modem and I'm being given a flashback to my 56k days. Right when I need the site the most too :(
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Argh...I swear...it's intermittent, but sometimes I can sit here for 2 to 3 minutes before a page loads. It's mostly when I first access the site, or when I go to post a reply.
 

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Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
 

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Now it's really fast, but sometimes it's REALLY slow.
But hey!
Now there are 13 + 23 users online.
Maybe when there's like 100+ users it becomes slow?
Hey, you guys who experience slowness try it when there's not half US online...

There were some technical difficulties yesterday and the pages didn't load at all.
There's no real pattern to it for me. I just tried to sign on and it was quick as hell. But other times I'll try to get on at 6AM and I'll wait like two or three minutes for every click.

All the other sites I visit seem to be pretty quick at these times, too, so I don't think it's something wrong on my end.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Still having problems, Allen.

Allen, why don't you post advice anymore? Check out the Discussion Forum once in a while.
 

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Better this morning, but usually IS in the morning. I'll let you know if I hit another one of those 3 minute delays. Thanks.
 

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SLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooowwwWW...

I feel like a fcuking braindead here.
 
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