tennisbuck12
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How do you guys deal with i when it happens to you? Anyway to fight back?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Slow Fade/Ghosting
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dustmuffin
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No way to fight back. The interest is gone. Move on.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You should never wait until she is fading like this. The first sign that she is not putting effort towards you turn your back and walk away. Unfortunately what most men do is that they become more clingy and start trying harder... all this does is reinforces in the female mind that she is better than you, which turns her off. This is why being a challenge to women works... they are genetically disposed to pursue and want men that are better than they are... you put a woman on a pedestal and act like a pathetic butler and she starts to wonder why she's with you.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
tennisbuck12
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Yep. I was about ready to become clingy! Thanks for saving my dignity to fight a other day.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I don't see a reason to worry about it. She is not interested so why would you try and get her. I always follow this discipline with girls. She either follows me or bye bye . I'm a business man, I don't have time for their sht.
BrainDamage92
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this happens when you miss the timing