tennisbuck12
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How do you guys deal with i when it happens to you? Anyway to fight back?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Slow Fade/Ghosting
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dustmuffin
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No way to fight back. The interest is gone. Move on.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You should never wait until she is fading like this. The first sign that she is not putting effort towards you turn your back and walk away. Unfortunately what most men do is that they become more clingy and start trying harder... all this does is reinforces in the female mind that she is better than you, which turns her off. This is why being a challenge to women works... they are genetically disposed to pursue and want men that are better than they are... you put a woman on a pedestal and act like a pathetic butler and she starts to wonder why she's with you.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
tennisbuck12
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Yep. I was about ready to become clingy! Thanks for saving my dignity to fight a other day.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I don't see a reason to worry about it. She is not interested so why would you try and get her. I always follow this discipline with girls. She either follows me or bye bye . I'm a business man, I don't have time for their sht.
BrainDamage92
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this happens when you miss the timing