tennisbuck12
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How do you guys deal with i when it happens to you? Anyway to fight back?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Slow Fade/Ghosting
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dustmuffin
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No way to fight back. The interest is gone. Move on.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You should never wait until she is fading like this. The first sign that she is not putting effort towards you turn your back and walk away. Unfortunately what most men do is that they become more clingy and start trying harder... all this does is reinforces in the female mind that she is better than you, which turns her off. This is why being a challenge to women works... they are genetically disposed to pursue and want men that are better than they are... you put a woman on a pedestal and act like a pathetic butler and she starts to wonder why she's with you.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
Plenty of other women in the world, start fresh with a new one.
tennisbuck12
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Yep. I was about ready to become clingy! Thanks for saving my dignity to fight a other day.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
I don't see a reason to worry about it. She is not interested so why would you try and get her. I always follow this discipline with girls. She either follows me or bye bye . I'm a business man, I don't have time for their sht.
BrainDamage92
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this happens when you miss the timing