"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Slick way of asking her out

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haven't tested but, will soon

me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.


what you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.

"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..

"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"
 
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DJnoob said:
haven't tested but, will soon

me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.


what you guys think?
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Read @cola 's post.

Don't ask if she is free. Do you think the guy in my avatar cares if a chick is free or not? You assume you are the best option when you ask her and she will put the other prospects behind you in her queue.
 
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There is no reason to be "slick". That's for cowards.

Better to be direct. "I want to see that beautiful smile again. Give me your phone number. Let's plan something soon"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cola said:
If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.

"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..

"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"
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I like this method. But it also makes it easier for her to say no because she knows you're not directly asking her out on a date.
 
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