“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Slick way of asking her out

DJnoob

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me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.


what you guys think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cola

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If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.

"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..

"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"
 

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me: you, itd be cool if you are free next weekened, if not, thats cool too.


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Read @cola 's post.

Don't ask if she is free. Do you think the guy in my avatar cares if a chick is free or not? You assume you are the best option when you ask her and she will put the other prospects behind you in her queue.
 

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There is no reason to be "slick". That's for cowards.

Better to be direct. "I want to see that beautiful smile again. Give me your phone number. Let's plan something soon"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you wanna ask in a way that doesn't seem needy so it softens the rejection the best way to do it is to frame it like you are going to go weather she comes or not.

"I'm going to the movies tomorrow night, wanna come with?" ..

"Im going to this concert next week, wanna come?"
I like this method. But it also makes it easier for her to say no because she knows you're not directly asking her out on a date.
 
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