"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slept with Cousin of New GF

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Reyaj

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This was obviously way before I met her... However she is going to find out that I had some sort of relations with her once her cousin realizes we are seeing each other.

My question is should I admit to sleeping this girl's cousin in the past or just say we dated but never had sex?

Basically would this be a turn on or a turn off for the girl?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reyaj said:
This was obviously way before I met her... However she is going to find out that I had some sort of relations with her once her cousin realizes we are seeing each other.

My question is should I admit to sleeping this girl's cousin in the past or just say we dated but never had sex?

Basically would this be a turn on or a turn off for the girl?
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I wouldn't tell her anything unless she brings it up. Then only that you dated. If she asks about sex say you dont kiss and tell.
 
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I'd say I went out with her a couple times. If she asks about sex deny it. I'll never tell a girl I slept with anyone because that means I would tell someone I slept with her. All she needs to know to avoid embarrassment is that you had something with her.
 
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Just say, " I don't kiss and tell" I won't tell anyone anything about us either....
 
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