"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Slept with Cousin of New GF

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This was obviously way before I met her... However she is going to find out that I had some sort of relations with her once her cousin realizes we are seeing each other.

My question is should I admit to sleeping this girl's cousin in the past or just say we dated but never had sex?

Basically would this be a turn on or a turn off for the girl?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Reyaj said:
This was obviously way before I met her... However she is going to find out that I had some sort of relations with her once her cousin realizes we are seeing each other.

My question is should I admit to sleeping this girl's cousin in the past or just say we dated but never had sex?

Basically would this be a turn on or a turn off for the girl?
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I wouldn't tell her anything unless she brings it up. Then only that you dated. If she asks about sex say you dont kiss and tell.
 
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I'd say I went out with her a couple times. If she asks about sex deny it. I'll never tell a girl I slept with anyone because that means I would tell someone I slept with her. All she needs to know to avoid embarrassment is that you had something with her.
 
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Just say, " I don't kiss and tell" I won't tell anyone anything about us either....
 
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