"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sleeping with ugly girls?

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do you mean ugly to you or ugly to everyone? (or to both?)

I have unconventional standards, but I've laid a few girls that I found dead sexy, and I was one of the only 3. (Had more to do with body and personality, tho...if the face ain't there, those two have to be very high.)

If we're saying everyone on the face of the planet thinks she's ugly, tho, then I wouldn't do it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Solomon said:
Get the head don't smash!!!

peace
lol...she stood me up! :crackup:

I think she was getting back at me for ignoring her calls for 2 or 3 weeks. Oh well, I was only doing it with the idea that it might help me stop thinking about my ex.

It probably wouldn't have helped anyway and I know I would have regretted it later.
 

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bish0p said:
lol...she stood me up! :crackup:

I think she was getting back at me for ignoring her calls for 2 or 3 weeks. Oh well, I was only doing it with the idea that it might help me stop thinking about my ex.

It probably wouldn't have helped anyway and I know I would have regretted it later.

Yeah been there done that
when you up in her you might be like this feels good
but 5 seconds later you thinking to yourself "wtf have I done":confused:
 

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Solomon said:
Yeah been there done that
when you up in her you might be like this feels good
but 5 seconds later you thinking to yourself "wtf have I done":confused:
When I was in college a few years back, I pulled this fat chick and was gaming her all night.

We ended up back at my dorm and after about 3 minutes of sex, I got up put my clothes back on and said, "I can't do this." and kicked her out.

I made a vow never to sleep with a fatty again. I broke it once back in December of 2007.
 
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bish0p hit it on the head.

I slept with one I picked up in similar circumstances. Since we all make mistakes, I passed it off on being drunk and almost didn't live it down...NEVER doing that again. Once the dust lifted, I realized that I would have gotten more out of masturbating. Much, much, more actually.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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