"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sleeping with ugly girls?

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do you mean ugly to you or ugly to everyone? (or to both?)

I have unconventional standards, but I've laid a few girls that I found dead sexy, and I was one of the only 3. (Had more to do with body and personality, tho...if the face ain't there, those two have to be very high.)

If we're saying everyone on the face of the planet thinks she's ugly, tho, then I wouldn't do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Solomon said:
Get the head don't smash!!!

peace
lol...she stood me up! :crackup:

I think she was getting back at me for ignoring her calls for 2 or 3 weeks. Oh well, I was only doing it with the idea that it might help me stop thinking about my ex.

It probably wouldn't have helped anyway and I know I would have regretted it later.
 

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bish0p said:
lol...she stood me up! :crackup:

I think she was getting back at me for ignoring her calls for 2 or 3 weeks. Oh well, I was only doing it with the idea that it might help me stop thinking about my ex.

It probably wouldn't have helped anyway and I know I would have regretted it later.

Yeah been there done that
when you up in her you might be like this feels good
but 5 seconds later you thinking to yourself "wtf have I done":confused:
 

bish0p

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Solomon said:
Yeah been there done that
when you up in her you might be like this feels good
but 5 seconds later you thinking to yourself "wtf have I done":confused:
When I was in college a few years back, I pulled this fat chick and was gaming her all night.

We ended up back at my dorm and after about 3 minutes of sex, I got up put my clothes back on and said, "I can't do this." and kicked her out.

I made a vow never to sleep with a fatty again. I broke it once back in December of 2007.
 
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bish0p hit it on the head.

I slept with one I picked up in similar circumstances. Since we all make mistakes, I passed it off on being drunk and almost didn't live it down...NEVER doing that again. Once the dust lifted, I realized that I would have gotten more out of masturbating. Much, much, more actually.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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