"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Sleeping with employees??

saber

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My company just opened two new stores and we hired these hotties to work them. In the next week or so I will be training them and will pretty much be their direct supervisor

I have enough experience to know when a girl wants the d1ck and my spidey sense is tingling like a mofo...even the guys who interviewed them made jokes about how I should sleep with them...my associates are in their late 40's, im 22 and the girls are 20-24

On top of that I will be interviewing people for the second store and god knows i have zero self control...


What are your thoughts on sleeping with employees??...i have zero chance of getting fired but I can see tons of other issues coming up

anyone here done it? how did you keep that under control
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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Why do we get an idiot here EVERY SINGLE DAY asking about ****ing around at work! They know its wrong or they wouldn't ask. THey just want someone to cosign on there ****ed up, weak man behavior.

NO. Don't do it. Do a search on women at work. And why the hell would you want some easy lay from some 40 year old. Go game women your own age. Stop being lazy.

We need a sticky about women at work. I swear to god I have responded for the last 4 days straight to this same question. It's like AFCS just say screw it. I'll go for the easy pickings and screw up my job situation for something the size of a quarter and that has a depreciating value.
 

saber

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oops i meant the girls are early 20 and the guys are in their late 40's

it just seems that since i started doing pick up that things just happen naturallly now and i dont even have to try...honestly i almost feel like something will happen with any girl im alone with for more than 20 min
 

theunflushables

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If you hold any position of power over these girls, do not do it. All it would take is one of them to say their job was threatened if they didn't sleep with you and you will be out of a job.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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DonJuan11

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saber said:
I have enough experience to know when a girl wants the d1ck

Please enlighten us.

and my spidey sense is tingling like a mofo...even the guys who interviewed them made jokes about how I should sleep with them...my associates are in their late 40's, im 22 and the girls are 20-24

What are your thoughts on sleeping with employees??...i have zero chance of getting fired but I can see tons of other issues coming up
If they are hot, I would go for it. You may regret it if you don't and your associates in the late 40s could move in too.
 

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NEGATIVE!!!

My dad got caught in a sticky situation and ended up leaving a company he worked 20 years for.
 

oakraiderz2

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No period
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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