"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sleeping with employees??

saber

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My company just opened two new stores and we hired these hotties to work them. In the next week or so I will be training them and will pretty much be their direct supervisor

I have enough experience to know when a girl wants the d1ck and my spidey sense is tingling like a mofo...even the guys who interviewed them made jokes about how I should sleep with them...my associates are in their late 40's, im 22 and the girls are 20-24

On top of that I will be interviewing people for the second store and god knows i have zero self control...


What are your thoughts on sleeping with employees??...i have zero chance of getting fired but I can see tons of other issues coming up

anyone here done it? how did you keep that under control
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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Why do we get an idiot here EVERY SINGLE DAY asking about ****ing around at work! They know its wrong or they wouldn't ask. THey just want someone to cosign on there ****ed up, weak man behavior.

NO. Don't do it. Do a search on women at work. And why the hell would you want some easy lay from some 40 year old. Go game women your own age. Stop being lazy.

We need a sticky about women at work. I swear to god I have responded for the last 4 days straight to this same question. It's like AFCS just say screw it. I'll go for the easy pickings and screw up my job situation for something the size of a quarter and that has a depreciating value.
 

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oops i meant the girls are early 20 and the guys are in their late 40's

it just seems that since i started doing pick up that things just happen naturallly now and i dont even have to try...honestly i almost feel like something will happen with any girl im alone with for more than 20 min
 

theunflushables

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If you hold any position of power over these girls, do not do it. All it would take is one of them to say their job was threatened if they didn't sleep with you and you will be out of a job.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJuan11

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saber said:
I have enough experience to know when a girl wants the d1ck

Please enlighten us.

and my spidey sense is tingling like a mofo...even the guys who interviewed them made jokes about how I should sleep with them...my associates are in their late 40's, im 22 and the girls are 20-24

What are your thoughts on sleeping with employees??...i have zero chance of getting fired but I can see tons of other issues coming up
If they are hot, I would go for it. You may regret it if you don't and your associates in the late 40s could move in too.
 

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NEGATIVE!!!

My dad got caught in a sticky situation and ended up leaving a company he worked 20 years for.
 

oakraiderz2

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No period
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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