"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sleep 13 hours a day but still tired

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It could also be a thyroid disorder. Side effects can include sleepyness, lack of energy, depression.

Eating right and exercising is great advice, but this sounds more serious to me. You've said you've been like this your entire life.

Do not let the doctors push you around. Keep right on hounding them to make sure they're doing their jobs. Get a second opinion if you need to. I've been to so many bad doctors because I'm in an HMO, so I know how to handle them. This really sounds like a medical problem.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I recommend 8.5 hours of sleep a night, 10 hours max.
 
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