"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sleep 13 hours a day but still tired

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It could also be a thyroid disorder. Side effects can include sleepyness, lack of energy, depression.

Eating right and exercising is great advice, but this sounds more serious to me. You've said you've been like this your entire life.

Do not let the doctors push you around. Keep right on hounding them to make sure they're doing their jobs. Get a second opinion if you need to. I've been to so many bad doctors because I'm in an HMO, so I know how to handle them. This really sounds like a medical problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I recommend 8.5 hours of sleep a night, 10 hours max.
 
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