"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slapping a girls ass while dancing...

YoungJuan

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Hey I went to a dance couple of days ago. However, during the time I was there I danced with a couple of girls. This one girl however, got so scared and immediately left as soon as I touched her ass. I mean from my experience a lot of girls were open to this, but however, this girl was REALLY not. I felt a little startled and sorry at the sametime so I went over to her and asked her if she was alright and she said that she was and danced with a little bit more conservative guy... Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sexual

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Depends how you want to be seen man.

If you're looking for an opinion, don't worry about it- but don't sexually harass women UNTIL you have more experience, so then you'll know when they want intense kino like that.

Have more class.
 

ascalon

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YoungJuan said:
Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
Just forget the whole thing,just different types of girls,you fell into the company of a shy girl. The right thing to do here is to pass by.
 

sinner

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Most probably she's not into you.... one of my friends who is a natural does this often and the chicks usually respond well..
 

Skilla_Staz

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lol did you haul off and slap it?


Some girls just aren't quite comfortable with that. No biggie. You're there to have fun, not have some girl rain on your parade. Keep dancing bro
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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08aisaac

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Don't slap a girls ass unless they're the playful blonde not as smart type.
 
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