"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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slapping a girls ass while dancing...

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Hey I went to a dance couple of days ago. However, during the time I was there I danced with a couple of girls. This one girl however, got so scared and immediately left as soon as I touched her ass. I mean from my experience a lot of girls were open to this, but however, this girl was REALLY not. I felt a little startled and sorry at the sametime so I went over to her and asked her if she was alright and she said that she was and danced with a little bit more conservative guy... Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Depends how you want to be seen man.

If you're looking for an opinion, don't worry about it- but don't sexually harass women UNTIL you have more experience, so then you'll know when they want intense kino like that.

Have more class.
 
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YoungJuan said:
Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
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Just forget the whole thing,just different types of girls,you fell into the company of a shy girl. The right thing to do here is to pass by.
 
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Most probably she's not into you.... one of my friends who is a natural does this often and the chicks usually respond well..
 
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lol did you haul off and slap it?


Some girls just aren't quite comfortable with that. No biggie. You're there to have fun, not have some girl rain on your parade. Keep dancing bro
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't slap a girls ass unless they're the playful blonde not as smart type.
 
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