"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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slapping a girls ass while dancing...

YoungJuan

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Hey I went to a dance couple of days ago. However, during the time I was there I danced with a couple of girls. This one girl however, got so scared and immediately left as soon as I touched her ass. I mean from my experience a lot of girls were open to this, but however, this girl was REALLY not. I felt a little startled and sorry at the sametime so I went over to her and asked her if she was alright and she said that she was and danced with a little bit more conservative guy... Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sexual

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Depends how you want to be seen man.

If you're looking for an opinion, don't worry about it- but don't sexually harass women UNTIL you have more experience, so then you'll know when they want intense kino like that.

Have more class.
 

ascalon

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YoungJuan said:
Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
Just forget the whole thing,just different types of girls,you fell into the company of a shy girl. The right thing to do here is to pass by.
 

sinner

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Most probably she's not into you.... one of my friends who is a natural does this often and the chicks usually respond well..
 

Skilla_Staz

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lol did you haul off and slap it?


Some girls just aren't quite comfortable with that. No biggie. You're there to have fun, not have some girl rain on your parade. Keep dancing bro
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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08aisaac

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Don't slap a girls ass unless they're the playful blonde not as smart type.
 
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