"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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slapping a girls ass while dancing...

YoungJuan

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Hey I went to a dance couple of days ago. However, during the time I was there I danced with a couple of girls. This one girl however, got so scared and immediately left as soon as I touched her ass. I mean from my experience a lot of girls were open to this, but however, this girl was REALLY not. I felt a little startled and sorry at the sametime so I went over to her and asked her if she was alright and she said that she was and danced with a little bit more conservative guy... Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sexual

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Depends how you want to be seen man.

If you're looking for an opinion, don't worry about it- but don't sexually harass women UNTIL you have more experience, so then you'll know when they want intense kino like that.

Have more class.
 

ascalon

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YoungJuan said:
Now here's my question, shoudl I worry about this incident or just forget the whole thing?
Just forget the whole thing,just different types of girls,you fell into the company of a shy girl. The right thing to do here is to pass by.
 

sinner

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Most probably she's not into you.... one of my friends who is a natural does this often and the chicks usually respond well..
 

Skilla_Staz

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lol did you haul off and slap it?


Some girls just aren't quite comfortable with that. No biggie. You're there to have fun, not have some girl rain on your parade. Keep dancing bro
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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08aisaac

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Don't slap a girls ass unless they're the playful blonde not as smart type.
 
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