"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Slapping a girls ass playfully?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
It depends on the girl... But if she took it the wrong way, you could get arrested..ElStud said:If you tap a girls ass playfully, it is not harassment.
Kev07
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Of course, it depends who slaps their ass, but then that would depend almost entirely on physical apperance if the girl did not know you in the first place.
you can keep going if you want elstud, but don't come back making a thread blaming your race when some girl decides to slap you or you get arrested. and IT WILL happen if you go up to random girls and slap their ass
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Evertime I have either slaped, spanked, touched, pinched a random girls arse THEY LOVED IT. I'm finished with this thread you guys are shocking.
That's it.sexybeast said:This thread is funny. Like Elstud said, guys are taking the whole thing TOO seriously. No one is saying "run around slapping random girls arses" - thats asking for trouble. If you gona do it use ya fvckin brains, and calibrate the situation b4 you do it. make sure its with a cheeky smile.
Evertime I have either slaped, spanked, touched, pinched a random girls arse THEY LOVED IT. I'm finished with this thread you guys are shocking.
All you have to do is calibrate, can you get away with it? Can't you? What will this do in the social dynamics you're in at the moment?
Just calibrate, there is no definite answer.
LOL Where you from? Cant be NYC, you'd be behind bars.Girls ACT like they don't like being touched by random strangers but TRUUUUUUST me deep down they love it I mean who doesn't...? Plus I usually always end up sexing them too because they see how much of a man I am and that's when I REALLY beat them down, you know while I'm hittin it doggy-style I just punch them in the face a couple of times etc etc etc because by then I've usually slapped them around enough for it to lose it's essence. Well you know how it is...PIMP!!!
Randallpink83
Master Don Juan
In his mind, EVERY girl loves him... its hilarious but so freakin awe inspiring aswell.
Anyhow the other day I ran into him at a bar near ASU and we chatted up a bit. And 3 hot girls were leaving the bar walking past us and one of the girls had to be one of the most hottest females in AZ at the moment. Like my jaw was dropping she was so freaking hot and I made a comment that was a half slur (yeah i know, i'm making myself sound bad). And he just simply glanced at her, "Who her?" and slapped her a$$ as she passed him. and when she turned around with an arched 'wtf' eyebrow, he just beamed like "Arent you so glad i picked you!!! I know you are, you're allowed to show your pleasure now!".. anyhow he said something to the fact of "hey babe whats up.. blah blah blah!" actually chatted it up a bit and just as she started to take down her guard and was actually staying there talking to him and suddenly PUSHED me towards her and said "hey my friend here thinks your hot"... WTF.. what an a$$hole... yeah obviously he ruined both our chances at that point (not that he could care less... every other girl on the planet is his it seems lol). He isnt the smartest kid... but I think these are the guys that define 'ignorance is bliss'.
Anyhow that kids confidence is something I strive for.
but to make a long story short... I wouldn't suggest slapping a perfect strangers a$$... Unless you are so sure of yourself and its the most natural thing you can do.
He didn't think about it... He just simply ACTED.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.