YourStallion
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So do you think he's a faggot?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You're sort of a faggot for making a poll about him and giving him all this attention...ask yourself why...YourStallion said:I saw his picture and well, he sort of looks like a faggot.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well, I did vote that I plowed his ass.oakraiderz2 said:You're sort of a faggot for making a poll about him and giving him all this attention...ask yourself why...
I think I am better than him. I'm not pretending to be something I'm not.S1NN3R said:I think he's wrong all of the time and totally full of crap in his posts, but who the hell are you to talk sh!t? Your posts have consisted of nothing worth reading either. Hell, half of your posts are just directed at talking sh!t towards him exclusively.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
Leave it to S1NN3R to lay it out with no BS!S1NN3R said:I think he's wrong all of the time and totally full of crap in his posts, but who the hell are you to talk sh!t? Your posts have consisted of nothing worth reading either. Hell, half of your posts are just directed at talking sh!t towards him exclusively.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.