YourStallion
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So do you think he's a faggot?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
skip2mylou
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rocko
Senior Don Juan
go find something better to do please, he contributes more here then you do
YourStallion
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I saw his picture and well, he sort of looks like a faggot.
oakraiderz2
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You're sort of a faggot for making a poll about him and giving him all this attention...ask yourself why...YourStallion said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
YourStallion
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Well, I did vote that I plowed his ass.oakraiderz2 said:
S1NN3R
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I think he's wrong all of the time and totally full of crap in his posts, but who the hell are you to talk sh!t? Your posts have consisted of nothing worth reading either. Hell, half of your posts are just directed at talking sh!t towards him exclusively.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
YourStallion
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I think I am better than him. I'm not pretending to be something I'm not.S1NN3R said:
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How do you know that he's pretending??? He appears to be quite steadfast in his beliefs, and he offers a different approach to the game. What is your beef with him anyway??? Isn't it gay to make little silly posts about another poster. You should handle your problem with SKIP --- with skip.... Stop being all girly trying to get the rest of us to gang up on your "enemy," knuckle up and throw your own punches.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Leave it to S1NN3R to lay it out with no BS!S1NN3R said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.