YourStallion
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So do you think he's a faggot?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You're sort of a faggot for making a poll about him and giving him all this attention...ask yourself why...YourStallion said:I saw his picture and well, he sort of looks like a faggot.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well, I did vote that I plowed his ass.oakraiderz2 said:You're sort of a faggot for making a poll about him and giving him all this attention...ask yourself why...
I think I am better than him. I'm not pretending to be something I'm not.S1NN3R said:I think he's wrong all of the time and totally full of crap in his posts, but who the hell are you to talk sh!t? Your posts have consisted of nothing worth reading either. Hell, half of your posts are just directed at talking sh!t towards him exclusively.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
Leave it to S1NN3R to lay it out with no BS!S1NN3R said:I think he's wrong all of the time and totally full of crap in his posts, but who the hell are you to talk sh!t? Your posts have consisted of nothing worth reading either. Hell, half of your posts are just directed at talking sh!t towards him exclusively.
Get a grip dude, you're no better than him.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.