"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Skinny thighs

saber101

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So theres this chick in my school, grade 9 probably, who im really interested in. Shes short with skinny thighs, totally my type. Im in grade 11 btw. I was checking her out, and she saw me (i maintained eye contact til she looked away). Now everytime i see her she gives me interested looks. They could be creeped out looks, but i really doubt that because those looks are pretty unmistakable. Anyways something like this happens to me every week with a different girl and i never have the balls to approach her so she eventually loses interest and stops giving me looks all together. How do i go about cold approaching random women (mostly grade 9s) in the hallways when theyre alone or with friends?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you know, I have noticed that when you show interest in a girl, they will show interest back if they are not completely repulsed by you. Just like if a girl showed strong interest in you, wouldnt you have a stronger interest in her?
 

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you got an advantage already girls that age love the upperclassmen. Just man up and talk to her
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she has good thighs, TALK TO HER RIGHT NOW, IMMEDIATELYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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saber101

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Luke!! said:
Well it goes alittle something like this

"Hey I saw you looking at me down the hall, thought you looked intresting enough for a chat. Whats your name."

Build off of that, it isn't the most supreme DJ approch but it gets the job done.
Does that actually work. I mean if i were to just stop her when shes walking down the hallway, or with a group of friends, would she go for it? Or would that push her into the (okay now im kinda creeped out) mode.
 
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