"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skinny thighs

saber101

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So theres this chick in my school, grade 9 probably, who im really interested in. Shes short with skinny thighs, totally my type. Im in grade 11 btw. I was checking her out, and she saw me (i maintained eye contact til she looked away). Now everytime i see her she gives me interested looks. They could be creeped out looks, but i really doubt that because those looks are pretty unmistakable. Anyways something like this happens to me every week with a different girl and i never have the balls to approach her so she eventually loses interest and stops giving me looks all together. How do i go about cold approaching random women (mostly grade 9s) in the hallways when theyre alone or with friends?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mjazz

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you know, I have noticed that when you show interest in a girl, they will show interest back if they are not completely repulsed by you. Just like if a girl showed strong interest in you, wouldnt you have a stronger interest in her?
 

mpimpin

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you got an advantage already girls that age love the upperclassmen. Just man up and talk to her
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she has good thighs, TALK TO HER RIGHT NOW, IMMEDIATELYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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saber101

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Luke!! said:
Well it goes alittle something like this

"Hey I saw you looking at me down the hall, thought you looked intresting enough for a chat. Whats your name."

Build off of that, it isn't the most supreme DJ approch but it gets the job done.
Does that actually work. I mean if i were to just stop her when shes walking down the hallway, or with a group of friends, would she go for it? Or would that push her into the (okay now im kinda creeped out) mode.
 
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