"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skinny thighs

saber101

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So theres this chick in my school, grade 9 probably, who im really interested in. Shes short with skinny thighs, totally my type. Im in grade 11 btw. I was checking her out, and she saw me (i maintained eye contact til she looked away). Now everytime i see her she gives me interested looks. They could be creeped out looks, but i really doubt that because those looks are pretty unmistakable. Anyways something like this happens to me every week with a different girl and i never have the balls to approach her so she eventually loses interest and stops giving me looks all together. How do i go about cold approaching random women (mostly grade 9s) in the hallways when theyre alone or with friends?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mjazz

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you know, I have noticed that when you show interest in a girl, they will show interest back if they are not completely repulsed by you. Just like if a girl showed strong interest in you, wouldnt you have a stronger interest in her?
 

mpimpin

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you got an advantage already girls that age love the upperclassmen. Just man up and talk to her
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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If she has good thighs, TALK TO HER RIGHT NOW, IMMEDIATELYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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saber101

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Luke!! said:
Well it goes alittle something like this

"Hey I saw you looking at me down the hall, thought you looked intresting enough for a chat. Whats your name."

Build off of that, it isn't the most supreme DJ approch but it gets the job done.
Does that actually work. I mean if i were to just stop her when shes walking down the hallway, or with a group of friends, would she go for it? Or would that push her into the (okay now im kinda creeped out) mode.
 
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