Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:crackup:Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
What works best for me is HEAVY decline sit-ups for adding thickness.Sniper001 said:Yeah, what happens if you are very skinny.. and you want abs? Anybody recommend anything?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
abs grow like any other muscle, progressive resistance.. pile up the plates on your chest and do decline situps rotated with hanging leg raises.Solarium said:There's a lot of controversy about this, but is slow weighted crunches better for building bigger ab muscles, or intense fast crunches?
Tried switching between the 2, but haven't really seen any differences.
Also, what is the ideal number of days out of the week devoted to abs. Currently I do 3-4 days, usually after work out.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Heavy lifting & diet.Rint said:I need help getting a nice six pack. I have one when i flex, but yea. We have a abes work out tape at my school's gym, but it dousn work for me. Whats a fast good abe work out to get nice abes?
Good advice from Espi.Solarium said:I'm getting huge bulks on my top 2 abs, but they pretty much disappear after the 2nd set. Is there a way to work the lower abs more than the upper abs? I mean, it looks wierd having your top 2 abs extending out as much as your pecs.
About the hanging leg raises, don't they work on your psoas muscles rather than your abs? Same theory behind the straight legged situps.
I've been reading a lot about abs, and so far I've been doing normal uninclined crunches carrying a 5 pound dumbell over my head. I bend my knee, then crunch with my elbows reaching toward my knee, count to 3, then back down again. I do this for 15 reps, with 3 sets total. I recently changed my method to faster crunches, pulling myself higher, and increasing the reps to 25. Sometimes right after the work out, I've been experiencing pains around my upper ab region, as though my muscles are pulling my rib cage back. Not sure if that a good thing or not...
Barbell Rows & Overhead Press (or Press)Solarium said:*Squats
*Deadlift
*Rows
*Press
*Bench Press
I know how to do squats and deadlifts, but what are rows and presses? I'm assuming that bench press is the one where you lie down and press the barbell up.
For some reason whenever I do squats, my right shoulder cramp and hurt as hell from my arm moving behind holding the bar. Is there a way to fix this?