You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
:crackup:Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
What works best for me is HEAVY decline sit-ups for adding thickness.Sniper001 said:Yeah, what happens if you are very skinny.. and you want abs? Anybody recommend anything?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
abs grow like any other muscle, progressive resistance.. pile up the plates on your chest and do decline situps rotated with hanging leg raises.Solarium said:There's a lot of controversy about this, but is slow weighted crunches better for building bigger ab muscles, or intense fast crunches?
Tried switching between the 2, but haven't really seen any differences.
Also, what is the ideal number of days out of the week devoted to abs. Currently I do 3-4 days, usually after work out.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Heavy lifting & diet.Rint said:I need help getting a nice six pack. I have one when i flex, but yea. We have a abes work out tape at my school's gym, but it dousn work for me. Whats a fast good abe work out to get nice abes?
Good advice from Espi.Solarium said:I'm getting huge bulks on my top 2 abs, but they pretty much disappear after the 2nd set. Is there a way to work the lower abs more than the upper abs? I mean, it looks wierd having your top 2 abs extending out as much as your pecs.
About the hanging leg raises, don't they work on your psoas muscles rather than your abs? Same theory behind the straight legged situps.
I've been reading a lot about abs, and so far I've been doing normal uninclined crunches carrying a 5 pound dumbell over my head. I bend my knee, then crunch with my elbows reaching toward my knee, count to 3, then back down again. I do this for 15 reps, with 3 sets total. I recently changed my method to faster crunches, pulling myself higher, and increasing the reps to 25. Sometimes right after the work out, I've been experiencing pains around my upper ab region, as though my muscles are pulling my rib cage back. Not sure if that a good thing or not...
Barbell Rows & Overhead Press (or Press)Solarium said:*Squats
*Deadlift
*Rows
*Press
*Bench Press
I know how to do squats and deadlifts, but what are rows and presses? I'm assuming that bench press is the one where you lie down and press the barbell up.
For some reason whenever I do squats, my right shoulder cramp and hurt as hell from my arm moving behind holding the bar. Is there a way to fix this?