That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
:crackup:Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
Rint said:Do u guys have any other ideas if i dont want to lose weight?
What works best for me is HEAVY decline sit-ups for adding thickness.Sniper001 said:Yeah, what happens if you are very skinny.. and you want abs? Anybody recommend anything?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
abs grow like any other muscle, progressive resistance.. pile up the plates on your chest and do decline situps rotated with hanging leg raises.Solarium said:There's a lot of controversy about this, but is slow weighted crunches better for building bigger ab muscles, or intense fast crunches?
Tried switching between the 2, but haven't really seen any differences.
Also, what is the ideal number of days out of the week devoted to abs. Currently I do 3-4 days, usually after work out.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Heavy lifting & diet.Rint said:I need help getting a nice six pack. I have one when i flex, but yea. We have a abes work out tape at my school's gym, but it dousn work for me. Whats a fast good abe work out to get nice abes?
Good advice from Espi.Solarium said:I'm getting huge bulks on my top 2 abs, but they pretty much disappear after the 2nd set. Is there a way to work the lower abs more than the upper abs? I mean, it looks wierd having your top 2 abs extending out as much as your pecs.
About the hanging leg raises, don't they work on your psoas muscles rather than your abs? Same theory behind the straight legged situps.
I've been reading a lot about abs, and so far I've been doing normal uninclined crunches carrying a 5 pound dumbell over my head. I bend my knee, then crunch with my elbows reaching toward my knee, count to 3, then back down again. I do this for 15 reps, with 3 sets total. I recently changed my method to faster crunches, pulling myself higher, and increasing the reps to 25. Sometimes right after the work out, I've been experiencing pains around my upper ab region, as though my muscles are pulling my rib cage back. Not sure if that a good thing or not...
Barbell Rows & Overhead Press (or Press)Solarium said:*Squats
*Deadlift
*Rows
*Press
*Bench Press
I know how to do squats and deadlifts, but what are rows and presses? I'm assuming that bench press is the one where you lie down and press the barbell up.
For some reason whenever I do squats, my right shoulder cramp and hurt as hell from my arm moving behind holding the bar. Is there a way to fix this?