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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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The **** do you know ? He isn't grossly fat just a tad overweight if he goes super strict lifts heavy and hard, does cardio and actually does a proper cut without giving up over the next 8-12 weeks. Then yes he can have a so called 6 pack in that time, it just depends on how badly he wants it.hamishmarshal999 said:
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So today I learned that you need to have a caloric deficit to lost fat. That means alcohol has to go. No more drunk sex with Extenze pills anymore. I'm okay with that. Doing the 5x5 StrongLifts because it focuses on my core. I made my own squat rack today, what you guys think?
http://imgur.com/npQT54z
http://imgur.com/npQT54z
DanZy
Master Don Juan
Please tell me that isn't your squat rack...Get yourself into a proper gym.BeDJ said:
You don't have to cut out alcohol completely, just use some moderation.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Is it May already? FVCK!
Let's get back on this. Currently at 17% body fat.
Let's get back on this. Currently at 17% body fat.
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I splurged this weekend, +1500 calories over my maintenance each day. College parties man.
As of this morning - http://imgur.com/QvLV3PX
I started going to the gym and eating healthy April 1st until now. Dropped from 172 (similar to the first post) to 160. I'm trying to go for the Bruce Lee look, but can't seem to consistently go below 155. I know I have to give up drinking, which is 1500 excess calories a week.
As of this morning - http://imgur.com/QvLV3PX
I started going to the gym and eating healthy April 1st until now. Dropped from 172 (similar to the first post) to 160. I'm trying to go for the Bruce Lee look, but can't seem to consistently go below 155. I know I have to give up drinking, which is 1500 excess calories a week.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Did you AMOG and then Neg me just now?
Ok.. What is AMOG?
Neg? Naa.. Just having fun
actually your doing pretty good. I myself have about 10lbs to drop, currently 195lbs @ 6'2" like to be 185 and get rid of the small muffin top. Apparently it takes a weekly deficit of 3500 calories to drop one pound and each ounce of hard alcohol has aprox 65-70 calories not including mix (pop has bad carbs in it and horrible amounts of calories).
Neg? Naa.. Just having fun
actually your doing pretty good. I myself have about 10lbs to drop, currently 195lbs @ 6'2" like to be 185 and get rid of the small muffin top. Apparently it takes a weekly deficit of 3500 calories to drop one pound and each ounce of hard alcohol has aprox 65-70 calories not including mix (pop has bad carbs in it and horrible amounts of calories).
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I've been working out everyday on a new lifting program. It mainly depends on the weather and my outfit. For example, the past 2 days I have been working out chest since it was hot and I wear V-necks. Tomorrow and Friday will be arms since I will most likely be wearing a slim fitted dress shirt both days. I go to the beach often on weekends so I reserve Saturday and Sunday for abs so they are more defined shirtless. Sometimes, I split that with a leg day or both days on legs. It depends on the activities I do on the beach.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You still have some love handles but that's to be expected with 1500 over maintenance..I love the progress from the first picture to the current one, though not all the fat is gone, I could see the V shape starting to form and you don't look so blocky anymore.
Your Squat rack is LOL. Keep up the work and please don't kill yourself on that squat rack.
Your Squat rack is LOL. Keep up the work and please don't kill yourself on that squat rack.
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Thanks buddy! I'm getting a lot more attraction from grandma cougars now than I get from fatties! I'm glad to be an inspiration to everyone!!!!ArcBound said:
DanZy
Master Don Juan
This is most bro workout I've ever encounteredBeDJ said:
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Today. Was. Leg. Day.
I was nearing the end of my workout using the Lay-Down Glute machine. This chick I have seen occasionally passes by and I get a whiff of her perfume. Dat Ass in black yoga pants jeez. She sits in that Spread Eagle Hip machine next to me. So, the protein shake kicks in and I get a testosterone boost. With the force of 1,000 Spartans I feel a raging boner incoming. At that very moment, my thighs cramp up. I couldn't move them. Standing up would mean I'd be on the sex offender list. My only option was to continue the workout on a cramped thigh. The chick glances over as I painfully and pathetically push 50lbs for the next 5 minutes.
Should I cancel my gym membership?
I was nearing the end of my workout using the Lay-Down Glute machine. This chick I have seen occasionally passes by and I get a whiff of her perfume. Dat Ass in black yoga pants jeez. She sits in that Spread Eagle Hip machine next to me. So, the protein shake kicks in and I get a testosterone boost. With the force of 1,000 Spartans I feel a raging boner incoming. At that very moment, my thighs cramp up. I couldn't move them. Standing up would mean I'd be on the sex offender list. My only option was to continue the workout on a cramped thigh. The chick glances over as I painfully and pathetically push 50lbs for the next 5 minutes.
Should I cancel my gym membership?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.