"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ashrivas said:
Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
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You pretty much answered your own question dude. Just get her number and ask her out. There's NO reason to think about it this hard, especially if she's flirting and TOUCHING you. Seriously? You think she'd do that to a guy she DIDN'T feel attracted to?
 
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