"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Situation with this girl

ashrivas

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Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ashrivas said:
Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
You pretty much answered your own question dude. Just get her number and ask her out. There's NO reason to think about it this hard, especially if she's flirting and TOUCHING you. Seriously? You think she'd do that to a guy she DIDN'T feel attracted to?
 
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