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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
 

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ashrivas said:
Sup Fellas. As you can see I am new to this forum. This is my first post and I seek some input from members of this community. I recently (about a month) ago met a girl at work ( I know you're probably saying: what's up with all these guys with girls at work, but this is a part-time thing and not very important) and since our initial meeting I have seen her only at work maybe twice a week, during which I had minimal contact (verbal communication, it's a call center environment so each with his/her own booth) but there was definitely some flirting. Recently we have been talking quite a bit and she's become more touchy-feeling as well as a bit of a clown (makes faces and what not - trying to be a tease I think). I am interested in her and would like to see if she's worth the efforts and time. However I am still quite an AFC and thus unsure about how to pursue this further. I have her email address/MSN/facebook (recently obtained). I think there is interest and I'd like to seal the deal here. What would be your recommendations and suggestions. I realize this is a short-term initiative and I am going to work at the areas in life that need improvement (long term goals) in parallel with my short term initiatives.

Any advice or input will be appreciated.

Cheers

Max
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You pretty much answered your own question dude. Just get her number and ask her out. There's NO reason to think about it this hard, especially if she's flirting and TOUCHING you. Seriously? You think she'd do that to a guy she DIDN'T feel attracted to?
 
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