Hello,
this situation is not recent but recently I've reconnected with the girl so I would like to know what the heck it meant.
We were in the same high scholl and shared a class in the last year. Also we took the same train when comming back in a given weekday, so we ended up talking to each other on a regular basis.
Crazy stuff:
* We gave hands in the middle of the street once
* In the train we "enlaced" our legs once
Also, she complimented my looks once and recommended that I didn't cut my beard (goatie) so I wouldn't look like a kid.
At the time she had a boyfriend.
In a group situation, in the train, with me, another girl and another guy, she told us that she had cheated on her boyfriend with 2 other guys - she even said she didn't do nothing with one of them because he only wanted sex.
Some time later she said they had broken up - I probably should have moved there but the big wuss in me took charge.
Some time after scholl ended she calls me, we talk for a while and she says she comes by my neighbourhood every work day. Then I asked if she wanted to meet one of those days. She said yes and then we agreed that I would call her during the work days to set something up.
I called her like 3 or 4 days after to set something and she says something like this: "I'm sorry, I cannot meet you because I'm with X". I say something in the lines of "ok, no problem" but I didn't like that. So she and ehr boyfriend were together again and I didn't call back.
We kinda lost contact there until she called me once saying she was in the same UNI as me and I was kinda cold with her (yeah that **** she did pissed me). She then sent a short textual message saying I was too cold to her and whatnot. I just called her about a month later to easy things up and we didn't talk for a lot of time.
We have talked for a couple of times recently.
What do you guys think of all this? The whole "contact" thing confused me because we were not closed friends - at least I think we were not
.
Also the telling she had cheated in that group situation is kinda weird. If a girl shares that with a guy does that put him in the friend zone?
Thanks for your thougths.
this situation is not recent but recently I've reconnected with the girl so I would like to know what the heck it meant.
We were in the same high scholl and shared a class in the last year. Also we took the same train when comming back in a given weekday, so we ended up talking to each other on a regular basis.
Crazy stuff:
* We gave hands in the middle of the street once
* In the train we "enlaced" our legs once
Also, she complimented my looks once and recommended that I didn't cut my beard (goatie) so I wouldn't look like a kid.
At the time she had a boyfriend.
In a group situation, in the train, with me, another girl and another guy, she told us that she had cheated on her boyfriend with 2 other guys - she even said she didn't do nothing with one of them because he only wanted sex.
Some time later she said they had broken up - I probably should have moved there but the big wuss in me took charge.
Some time after scholl ended she calls me, we talk for a while and she says she comes by my neighbourhood every work day. Then I asked if she wanted to meet one of those days. She said yes and then we agreed that I would call her during the work days to set something up.
I called her like 3 or 4 days after to set something and she says something like this: "I'm sorry, I cannot meet you because I'm with X". I say something in the lines of "ok, no problem" but I didn't like that. So she and ehr boyfriend were together again and I didn't call back.
We kinda lost contact there until she called me once saying she was in the same UNI as me and I was kinda cold with her (yeah that **** she did pissed me). She then sent a short textual message saying I was too cold to her and whatnot. I just called her about a month later to easy things up and we didn't talk for a lot of time.
We have talked for a couple of times recently.
What do you guys think of all this? The whole "contact" thing confused me because we were not closed friends - at least I think we were not
.Also the telling she had cheated in that group situation is kinda weird. If a girl shares that with a guy does that put him in the friend zone?
Thanks for your thougths.