"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Situation bugging me

unknowntim3

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There is this girl i have been hanging out with latly, and its agravating me everytime... we have been friends for awhile and hang otu with a bunch of us and what not... but anyways..

one day we will be haning out and she seems all cool and looks like she may have some feelings for me, ask me to sit next to her, calls me, ect...

but then like a day goes by, we will talk on the phone for a bit and stuff...but when we hang out, and there is like no signs of anything... im getting real mixed signals here if anyone can help =\

pissing me off! :(
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vigilante7

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Re: Re: Situation bugging me

Originally posted by blienk
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And that's all you'll ever be. NEXT!


AAHAHHA COLD

Since you cant seem to see whats happening, she is USING YOU !!!!!

You need to show her that you are capable with girls and talk to new girls and seem disinterested ect
 

unknowntim3

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nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
 

Sammo

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You want to know for sure? Ask her on a date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ Alejandro

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Kino, man. kino. maybe more but nothin less. just make sure the timing is right.

why not try the kiss test too? that should clear things up a lot.
 

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Originally posted by unknowntim3
nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
Oh but she is my feeble minded friend. Just not in a way you recognize. When she needs attention from someone she can turn to you because she knows youll be down for it all. Next time she acts like that just ignore her and do it to some other girl.
 
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Dude, stop waisting time w/ the LJBF's. Move on, there are PLENTY and i mean PLENTY of chicks to get. Dont waste your time trying to make some radical "change"
 
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