"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Situation bugging me

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unknowntim3

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There is this girl i have been hanging out with latly, and its agravating me everytime... we have been friends for awhile and hang otu with a bunch of us and what not... but anyways..

one day we will be haning out and she seems all cool and looks like she may have some feelings for me, ask me to sit next to her, calls me, ect...

but then like a day goes by, we will talk on the phone for a bit and stuff...but when we hang out, and there is like no signs of anything... im getting real mixed signals here if anyone can help =\

pissing me off! :(
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Re: Re: Situation bugging me

Originally posted by blienk
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And that's all you'll ever be. NEXT!
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AAHAHHA COLD

Since you cant seem to see whats happening, she is USING YOU !!!!!

You need to show her that you are capable with girls and talk to new girls and seem disinterested ect
 
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nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
 
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You want to know for sure? Ask her on a date.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kino, man. kino. maybe more but nothin less. just make sure the timing is right.

why not try the kiss test too? that should clear things up a lot.
 
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Originally posted by unknowntim3
nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
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Oh but she is my feeble minded friend. Just not in a way you recognize. When she needs attention from someone she can turn to you because she knows youll be down for it all. Next time she acts like that just ignore her and do it to some other girl.
 
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Dude, stop waisting time w/ the LJBF's. Move on, there are PLENTY and i mean PLENTY of chicks to get. Dont waste your time trying to make some radical "change"
 
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