"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is this girl i have been hanging out with latly, and its agravating me everytime... we have been friends for awhile and hang otu with a bunch of us and what not... but anyways..

one day we will be haning out and she seems all cool and looks like she may have some feelings for me, ask me to sit next to her, calls me, ect...

but then like a day goes by, we will talk on the phone for a bit and stuff...but when we hang out, and there is like no signs of anything... im getting real mixed signals here if anyone can help =\

pissing me off! :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Re: Re: Situation bugging me

Originally posted by blienk
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And that's all you'll ever be. NEXT!
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AAHAHHA COLD

Since you cant seem to see whats happening, she is USING YOU !!!!!

You need to show her that you are capable with girls and talk to new girls and seem disinterested ect
 
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nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
 
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You want to know for sure? Ask her on a date.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kino, man. kino. maybe more but nothin less. just make sure the timing is right.

why not try the kiss test too? that should clear things up a lot.
 
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Originally posted by unknowntim3
nah shes not using me at all, i know that one, but yeah... hmm iono we will see
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Oh but she is my feeble minded friend. Just not in a way you recognize. When she needs attention from someone she can turn to you because she knows youll be down for it all. Next time she acts like that just ignore her and do it to some other girl.
 
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Dude, stop waisting time w/ the LJBF's. Move on, there are PLENTY and i mean PLENTY of chicks to get. Dont waste your time trying to make some radical "change"
 
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