Ok there is a girl at work that I am really into right now. My problem is that it appears that the other guy at work is into her, and all of the girls at work say that's the case. Apparently they text each other all the time, and while everybody is sitting at lunch. (Don't know how important that is, I just think it's weird". I haven't been much further with her than the occasional text conversation. She also agreed to go to a store with me, but I haven't talked to her about it since last wednesday. She is on vacation right now, and goes back to school soon. I want to take it further, like do something with her before she leaves and keep in touch, visit her at school and hang out when she comes down, you know all that stuff. I am going back to school around here, so I will have more opportunities to meet new girls, but right now I admit a case of oneitis. I am just afraid that her and the other dude are into eachother, even though they are keeping it from everyone else. I just need some solid advice. I am getting depressed and desperate, and am afraid I will do some big afc thing to screw it up.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Situation at work.
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