Ok there is a girl at work that I am really into right now. My problem is that it appears that the other guy at work is into her, and all of the girls at work say that's the case. Apparently they text each other all the time, and while everybody is sitting at lunch. (Don't know how important that is, I just think it's weird". I haven't been much further with her than the occasional text conversation. She also agreed to go to a store with me, but I haven't talked to her about it since last wednesday. She is on vacation right now, and goes back to school soon. I want to take it further, like do something with her before she leaves and keep in touch, visit her at school and hang out when she comes down, you know all that stuff. I am going back to school around here, so I will have more opportunities to meet new girls, but right now I admit a case of oneitis. I am just afraid that her and the other dude are into eachother, even though they are keeping it from everyone else. I just need some solid advice. I am getting depressed and desperate, and am afraid I will do some big afc thing to screw it up.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Situation at work.
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