"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sitting for extended periods of time will increase risk of disease

spesmilitis

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“The enzymes in blood vessels of muscles responsible for ‘fat burning’ are shut off within hours of not standing. Standing and moving lightly will re-engage the enzymes".

"Exercising, even for an hour a day, was not sufficient to reverse the effect".

http://www.eurekalert.org/pub_releases/2007-11/uom-msf111907.php
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warboss Alex

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Completely agree - a sedentary lifestyle gives your body the signal to 'store' and not 'expend'.

I was at my leanest when I couldn't afford to run a car. ;)
 

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Through trial and error I've decided that doing some form of exercise every day is essential for me now. I moved into the inner city in the summer and my lifestyle is a lot less active now. I've started going for a 45 minute walk every morning, not included in my cardio/lifting schedule.
 
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