RichardTheFrog
Banned
But flipping houses isn't. Neither is recovering from a spinal cord injury.going to prison is low quality tho
Plus I'm not a girl.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
But flipping houses isn't. Neither is recovering from a spinal cord injury.going to prison is low quality tho
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Then who is high quality?but guys who make money for girls with bad necks are low quality tho
When your phone was ringing off the hook and you were so popular, wasn't that when you were dealing acid or something?I disagree.
What you people don't realize is that I used to be very socially popular and have a million friends with my phone ringing 100 times/day before I got arrested.
I've been there and done that. Think about it... What kind of "cred" could being in prison for 4 years earn me with other guys if I really cared. I'd rather keep it a secret.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What's your point?When your phone was ringing off the hook and you were so popular, wasn't that when you were dealing acid or something?
Don't even act like my,Lambo isn't totally,hot.When your phone was ringing off the hook and you were so popular, wasn't that when you were dealing acid or something?
Hmm, maybe some congratulations are in order for gaining some insight and showing some growth. I'm impressed.Struck me how OFFENSIVE/inappropriate/rude it is to only want a girl for a hole in her body.
I've always thought that one of the reasons that "social proof" was important was because it sent the message to the woman that the guy is safe to be with. I don't mean safe like "nice guy" safe, I mean if other women will hang out with him, chances decrease that he's a serial killer or sexual offender of some sort.Remembering a line from The Mystery Method saying how girls screen out guys who have a "dubious intent." (among other reasons).
There's basically 2 sides of the fence. Which are you on? Do you wish people well or harm?
A lot of guys on this forum have seemed to think that a guy in prison is the ultimate male to some women.going to prison is low quality tho
I'm asking you a question . You just stated that you were extremely popular and socially sought after. I remember you mentioned before you were popular when you were dealing. Was this comment tWhat's your point?
Personally, I'm not turned on by expensive cars. I grew up surrounded by weathe, in a wealthy community. I saw first hand how "things" can definitely be all about smoke and mirrors and absolutely do not determine the quality of the person.Don't even act like my,Lambo isn't totally,hot.
I'm gonna get a license,plate that says LAMBO69.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That's true.....Anyone can have expensive stuffb and still be a total a$$hole
I've been in front of a judge facing jail. I've also nearly died before. It certainly makes you question your choices. It made me value my life a lot more, my friends included. It's part of what made me want to have more fun, but fun the way I wanted. It's why I don't get caught up in the seriousness of it all anymore.I went to prison for 4 years.
There's a line between what matters and what doesn't, and "friendships" with other males does not.
Think about standing in front of a judge and hoping he only gives you a few years instead of 25. Think about how serious that is.
Now think about how all of that is just games compared to when I broke my neck when I was younger.
Now think how unimportant your "friends" seem.
Define "nearly died,I've been in front of a judge facing jail. I've also nearly died before. It certainly makes you question your choices. It made me value my life a lot more, my friends included. It's part of what made me want to have more fun, but fun the way I wanted. It's why I don't get caught up in the seriousness of it all anymore.
There are different kinds of @ssholes. There is the "charming" @sshole type that the community leans toward, and he's not really that bad of a guy at all. He just has a strong personality, a strong frame, goes for what he wants, is playful and teases women, and doesn't supplicate to them. The community has an odd way of labeling people ("nice guys" aren't nice and "jerks" aren't really jerks).but a LOT of women LIKE azzholes.... (didn't say "all"...didn't say "you".....said "a LOT")
Or do you disagree?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Wow I was so drunk I don't even remember these conversations.Define "nearly died,
Yes that was the same time.I'm asking you a question . You just stated that you were extremely popular and socially sought after. I remember you mentioned before you were popular when you were dealing. Was this comment t
related to the same period, the one when you were dealing drugs? Or was this social apex at a different time in your life?
It's simply a question.
They can also have a cool Lambo and NOT be an a$$hole.Anyone can have expensive stuffb and still be a total a$$hole
Yes and no.Yes, you're on the right track!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.